Flaws, Life, Love, Smile

” Your flaws are perfect for the person who’s meant to love you”

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I was brainstorming about what to write in this blog and a friend of mine asked me to write on this guy i like, a guy who cares for me , who gives me reasons to laugh even when i’m not capable of being able to smile (we aren’t dating 😛 ) .
But nah! i think ill just write about the friend. I wanted to dedicate at least one post for this great friend of mine. 🙂 This friend of mine is a very special one- as special as the nutella that is always on my table. (that’s a lot special i shouldn’t be giving him so much importance) 😛 Its been just few months i have known him but one thing i know very well is that he has always been there for me and always will ! 🙂 A friend like him is a rare one to find. (one in a billion as you call it, or a pearl in the ocean..i’m acting like i love him. No i don’t. :P )  🙂 i call him “A2S”. A story that’s better understood only b/w us two. xD
If you are reading, i know you are (cause you are always my first reader. 😥 ) Don’t be flattered!! I don’t love you and all!! You are the best best “guy” friend i ve ever met ( not even “he” is as sweet as you. :3 )
And this friend loves this girl – who according to “people” is not perfect for him. But for him she is his world. They are the cutest couple! She is perfect for him with all her flaws, imperfections, insecurities and all her stupidities. 😛
And the main thing i realized was that- “its all about how your perceive a person” . If a person in your mind is “bad” then no matter how good they are to you, you always end up taking the wrong side of things. You don’t need to “be” perfect for anyone, be yourself and one who sees you with all your flaws is the one who needs to be in your life.  The world is one big mirror, If you look at  it with love- it shows the same image of love, and if you look at it with hate- it shows the image of hate. 🙂 
Look at the world with love and trust me – the world is gonna look back at you with double the amount of love!!
Hope you enjoyed the post! Keep smiling!! Are you ready to change your perception of the world?  🙂 

A collection of flaws make beauty- just the way a collection of stars make a constellation “

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Life, Smile

Worries in life are like a Glass of Water you hold?

Shatter your glass of worries!
Shatter your glass of worries!

Why is a smile soo important? what can it change? these were the questions a friend of mine (who helped me start this blog) asked me after reading the first post, and i said “you ll see in the next post”. (i was so happy i have at least one follower 😛 ).
I actually googled “smile” :P. (idk what i was thinking 😛 )
“A smile is a facial expression formed primarily by flexing the muscles at the sides of the mouth.” (yeah! i think i can become a smile scientist 😛 )
People smile when they are happy ( like duh! ) and also seeing a person smile makes you smile back, chemically (yeah i’m talking all the hormones!!) making you happy!

Read this short story-
Once a psychology professor walked around on a stage while teaching stress management principles to a auditorium of students.  As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the typical “glass half empty or glass half full” question.  Instead, with a smile on her face, the professor asked, “How heavy is this glass of water I’m holding?”

Students shouted out answers ranging from eight ounces to a couple pounds.

She replied, “From my perspective, the absolute weight of this glass doesn’t matter.  It all depends on how long I hold it.  If I hold it for a minute or two, it’s fairly light.  If I hold it for an hour straight, its weight might make my arm ache a little.  If I hold it for a day straight, my arm will likely cramp up and feel completely numb and paralyzed, forcing me to drop the glass to the floor.  In each case, the weight of the glass doesn’t change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it feels to me.”

“Your stresses and worries in life are very much like this glass of water.  Think about them for a while and nothing happens.  Think about them a bit longer and you begin to ache a little.  Think about them all day long, and you will feel completely numb and paralyzed – incapable of doing anything else until you drop them.” 🙂

Drop your worries! and use a smile to help you drop them, cause there’s nothing more easier than to smile to change your world!! 
Also remember the pain you are going through right now, is an important part of molding your mind to be stronger. Smile!! 🙂 trust me its worth it! 🙂

“Life is beautiful only for those who know how to celebrate the pain” ! 🙂 🙂

Dance, Life, Smile

“You’re never fully dressed without a smile!” :D

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Hii! This is blossomedheart and here i am with my first post. 🙂
Why did i create this blog? i asked myself and i this is what i ended up with-  i created this blog because i wanted to express myself to a wider world? maybe. Because i was bored?? nah!
I wanted to let the world know that no matter what goes on in your life dont forget to smile? yeah! Show life you can do well even when you have problems! 😉 (take that life! here’s a smile to your effort on screwing up my life, which went in vain! ha!)
i write bout things , umm what things you ask? –   Any topic that randomly comes up on my mind (i promise it wont be stupid– im gonna write bout life and stuff) or if any of you readers ask me to write on one. 🙂
Have any of you heard the song – “you’re never fully dressed without a smile” by Sia?  if not hear to it right now! its something that ll get you to start a day well and its also my inspiration.. 🙂
thank you!! for reading through this post! 🙂 i appreciate it a lot! If i need to improve on anything please let me know in the comments.. 🙂
How often do You leave your house without a smile? 🙂